5 Things That Help Create Stunning Getting-Ready Photos
Getting-ready photos are one of the most emotional, chaotic, and straight-up fun parts of your wedding day… and yet, they’re often the first thing people think about skipping.
Let me say this loud for the people in the back: DO NOT SKIP YOUR GETTING-READY PHOTOS.
They’re real. They’re raw. They’re your closest people buzzing around you, full of nerves, love, caffeine, and maybe a little chaos. And they’re also the beginning of one of the biggest days of your life.
So, if you want to make those moments shine — and trust me, you do — here are five simple ways to make your getting ready wedding photos absolutely stunning.
1. Choose a space with natural light
Okay, yes. Big windows are a dream. Natural light is like the Beyoncé of photography — it just makes everything better.
But real talk? I’ve photographed everything from Airbnb lofts to basements to childhood bedrooms with one tiny window… and I still made it beautiful. (One of the best compliments I’ve ever gotten was: “Matt can make any space look good.” Still riding high on that one.)
If you have the option to book a hotel room or Airbnb with natural light, go for it! But if you’re getting ready at your childhood home, or a place that means something to you? That’s part of the story too. We’ll make it work. I promise.
2. Keep the clutter low
This one is sneaky important.
I can make light out of nothing, but I cannot make a pile of half-zipped duffel bags, coffee cups, and garment bags look timeless.
Before I start shooting, I’ll usually do a sweep of the room (or rope in a helpful human!) to clear out the clutter. Think of it like tidying before guests come over — but your guests are your future selves looking back on these photos for the next 50 years.
Of course, if you’re into that ultra-documentary vibe, a little mess can add to the story. But for most couples? Clean space = cleaner, more focused, more beautiful photos.
3. Have your details ready
Once the light’s sorted and the room’s tidied, we move into the fun stuff: the details.
Your rings, your perfume, your vow books, your jewellery, your shoes — even your invitation suite if you’ve got it on hand. Anything that tells the story of this moment. Gather everything in one place (a cute box or tray works great), and I’ll start capturing them while you’re sipping that pre-wedding mimosa.
Bonus tip: Ask your florist for a few extra blooms for your flat lay. It makes a difference!
4. Let the emotions happen
Weddings are full of all the feels — and the getting-ready part is where it all starts to hit.
Happy tears. Nervous laughter. Long hugs from your people. That “this is really happening” look in your eyes.
Let it happen. Don’t hold back. These are the moments that hit you in the gut (in the best way) when you look back at your photos. You don’t have to pose. You don’t have to perform. Just be.
And hey, while we’re at it — I’m a big fan of a quick family photo during this time too. Nothing formal, just a real, beautiful photo of the people who were there before the dress was zipped, before the ceremony started. Just as they were. Just as they are.
It’s historic. And it matters.
5. Trust the timeline
Look — wedding mornings can be bananas. Makeup runs behind. Someone forgets the rings. Hair takes longer. The dog gets loose. I’ve seen it all.
But here’s the truth: stuff happens. And it’s okay.
The key is having a photographer (👋 hi, that’s me) who can guide you gently, keep you grounded, and pivot like a pro if something throws things off.
We’ll plan ahead. We’ll build in breathing room. And when something goes off-script? We’ll adjust, regroup, and keep things flowing — all while keeping the vibes calm, happy, and organized.
That’s the difference a pro makes. You don’t just get beautiful photos. You get someone who can actually help keep the day running.
Final Thoughts: This Part of Your Day Is Worth It
Getting ready wedding photos aren’t just about pretty dresses and detail shots (though yeah, we’ll get those too). They’re about energy, connection, and the people who’ve seen you through it all — gathered in one place, helping you step into the next chapter of your life.
They’re real. They’re meaningful. And they are so worth capturing.
Need help planning your timeline or choosing your getting-ready space? I’d love to help. Reach out here and let’s make your morning unforgettable.
