How to Write the Perfect Letter to the Bride: Tips and Examples
Writing a letter to the bride is one of those super sweet wedding traditions that feels like a warm hug in paper form. Whether you’re the groom, a bridesmaid, or the maid of honour, this quick guide will help you write something she’ll keep forever. Need help with your maid of honour speech? The Knot has a few ideas you can borrow from too.
Should Your Letter Be Sentimental, Funny, or Both?
Honestly, the best letters are a bit of both. Something genuine, heartfelt, and sprinkled with a little humour is exactly what brides love most. It helps ease nerves and brings smiles and tears of joy.
Here’s What to Include:
- Start by Celebrating Her Big Day: Kick things off with excitement and love.
- Share a Personal Memory: Remind her of a special or funny moment you’ve shared.
- Tell Her Why She’s Amazing: Highlight the qualities you genuinely admire.
- Express Your Joy and Support: Let her know you’re thrilled for her new adventure.
- Offer Sweet, Simple Advice (Optional): Keep it brief and uplifting.
- Wrap it Up Warmly: Close your letter in a personal, loving way.
Example Snippet (Bridesmaid):
“Dear Emma, today’s finally here! From our endless sleepovers as kids to helping you choose the perfect dress, I’m so incredibly excited to stand by you today. You deserve every ounce of happiness—I’m so lucky to have you in my life.”
Example Snippet (Groom):
“My love, I knew from our very first date that today would come, and now it’s finally here. I’m the luckiest person alive, and I can’t wait for forever with you.”
Quick Tips:
- Write by hand—trust me, it matters.
- Don’t stress about being perfect. Just be real.
- Keep it short, sweet, and meaningful.
A Final Thought:
Your letter doesn’t have to be flawless—it just needs to be you. That’s what she’ll treasure most.
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